The #1 Answer to ‘Why Me’

Stacey Hall Posted by Stacey Hall, Author, Keynote Presenter, Strategies and Tools to Attract, Expand, & Retain Passionately Successful Teams, Chi-To-Be!, LLC.

Stacey Hall, as CEO & Founder of Chi-To-Be!,LLC, is known globally as "The Team Attraction and Retention Expert'  since creating the Strategic Attraction Planning Process introduced to the world in 2001.


The #1 Answer to ‘Why Me’


“There’s not a chance we’ll reach our full potential until we stop blaming each other and start practicing personal accountability.” ~ John Miller

 

Why Not Me

 

There is a real possibility that I AM Powerfully in charge of my life.
 

I recently had a conversation with a woman who was explaining to me that she felt out of control because of the demands made on her by the people in her life. She shared a litany of challenges, problems, and injustices she experienced that she said were caused by the people in her life.
 

Throughout the conversation, she often repeated the phrase, ‘Why Me?’
 

Each time she said, ‘Why Me?, I replied with this question: “What is your B-All goal?’
 

And, each time, her answer was that she did not have one.
 

When she was finished venting her upsets and was a bit calmer, I explained why it is so important to have a B-All.
 

I explained to her that a B-All goal is the most important goal that one sets to achieve before they die. I also explained how important it is to keep our focus firmly centered on our B-All goal so that nothing can pull us off our path towards achieving it.
 

Without a B-All (and a commitment to achieving it), it is very easy to give our power over to other people in our lives who make requests — as well as demands — for our time.
 

‘Why Me?’ is a question asked only by people who feel victimized by the people they have allowed to be in their lives.
 

Conversely, the question — ‘How Can I Achieve My B-All with Velocity and Ease?’ — is a question asked by people who recognize that they are in charge of choosing who will receive their time, attention and energy.
 

These are the people who feel in charge of their life.
 

These are the people who refuse to let others steer them off course to the fulfillment of their greatest goal.
 

These are the people who take a breath before responding to requests from other people to determine if saying ‘yes’ to the request will move them further away…or closer to the achievement of their B-All.
 

So, if you choose to release yourself from ‘shoulds’ and obligations you feel that other people are attempting to impose on you, then take a moment now to meditate on the question: What is the greatest goal I intend to achieve before I die?
 

And, you may also want to watch my TEDx presentation on the topic of ‘Stop Shoulding On Your Self’ at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-o3piURD0U&list=PLKv-Sx_43p_oDimzz0v_smLSpumq8FsLF&index=1
 

Once you are firmly focused on your B-All, you will more easily create new boundaries and possibilities in your relationships with others.
 

And, you will transform ‘Why Me?’ to ‘I AM Powerful!’
 

HERE’S HOW TO GET THE MOST LIFT FROM THIS WEEK’S CHI-LIFT…
 

Anoint Oil Drop
This is the essential oil I AM using today to ensure I AM staying connected to what is most important to me:

 

Melissa (Melissa officinalis) has a light, fresh, lemony scent that is strengthening and revitalizing, yet soothing and calming. Pure, organic essential oil is available at: http://staceyhalloils.com/index.php/essential-oils/essential-oil-singles (For more information, scroll down to #4 below.)
 

1. Read Chapter 11 in ‘Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All ‘ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs‘ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Chi-Lift.
 

2. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster.
 

3. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group and/or the Chi-To-Be! LinkedIN group. (The links to both Chi-To-Be! groups and our fan page are located to the right on this page and at http://www.chi-to-be.com/chi-to-be)
 

4. For more information about the use of therapeutic-grade essential oils to boost your success, visit http://www.chi-to-be.com/yl-essential-oils or listen to my ‘AromaWellness in the Palm of Your Hand’ Podcast on the use of essential oils at www.talkshoe.com / Call ID 31423
*I use only therapeutic-grade essential oils – those that are labeled to be taken internally. This blog is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any disease. Be sure to consult with your licensed physician. None of the statements regarding Melissa oil have been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. Be sure to read the label directions of your oil choice before using.
 

Thank you, again, for requesting to receive these Weekly Chi-Lifts. The burst of power will be released to you as you implement these ‘intentional activities’.
 

Ride the Chi!

Stacey

BE Energized — BE Powerful — Take Life By Your B-All!

 
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Thanks For Riding The Chi With Me,

Stacey Hall, L.S.H. C.A.C. C.R.P. C.N.T.C

CEO & Founder
The Hall System of Intuitive Wellness
Chi-To-Be! Author, Creator, Catalyst

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“The #1 Answer to ‘Why Me'”